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My name is Scarlet Jade and this is a journal of my sex life.

I’m not an actress. This is 100% real life.

I’m not a writer. I’m telling my story the way I see it.

I’m not perfect. My body has flaws. I don’t always practice what I preach. But I’m trying.

I pledge to be honest. Haters gonna hate.

I don’t know anything about running websites, at least I didn’t. I’m learning as I go along.

I don’t have a lot of free time. I have a day job where I work 40+ hours a week.


I’ve always kept a list of the number of sexual partners* I’ve had. This list started very basic and I have added more details recently. I am leaving out their actual names and using nicknames where I can. Thinking of a nickname for everyone is quite difficult, so please forgive the blanks.

The list only documents the first time I had sex with a guy, not how often I’ve had sex with them. I started keeping a calendar after a pregnancy scare when I felt like my birth control method was failing me. It’s kinda scary to realize you have no clue who or how many guys you’ve been with in the last month. So now I know at all times.

Doing what I do I am at a higher risk of sexually transmitted diseases/infections. Because condoms are not fool proof and they don’t protect you against everything, I see my OBGYN every three months for a full panel screening. This includes an exam with a vagininal swab for chlamydia and gonorrhea, as well as a blood test for HIV, Hep B, Hep C, Syphilis, and Herpes type 1 and type 2. If I ever have a positive result, having the calendar will help determine who I need to contact. (God forbid!)

This blog is still in it’s infancy and I’m trying to figure out all the details as I go along. I appreciate your feedback, but please keep it positive or constructive. I will not approve any trolling comments.

*UPDATE* (July 2017) – It has been a few months since I have updated the site. Partially because I’ve been busy and my sex life has slowed down, but mostly because I am not wanting to spend the time to edit the video clips before posting them. I am in need of someone that I trust to do this for me! We will see…



2 thoughts on “About Me”

  1. Hi! I’ve just finished reading all of your current blog entries and this whole thing seems like something out of a book lololol it’s really interesting and super cool~ In our society the way they demonize women for being promiscous and enjoying their own sexuality is so stupid and I think your message is empowering 🙂 anyways I hope you’re having an amazing day and thanks for sharing your experiences

    1. Alexis,

      Thank you for your comment! I really appreciate your kind words. You don’t say what country you are in, but I assume you are referring to the male-dominate sexist society of the United States. You are totally correct! You gave me an idea for some content of the unfair dating stigmas. Check back soon!

      XO Scarlet

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